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STRAIGHT BI-SEXUAL FEMALES
STRAIGHT BI-SEXUAL FEMALE
(Many sources)
All that is written about straight females who are comfortable kissing and having sex with females is now quite acceptable. The kissing between 2 females who are straight is a way for the girls to attract males.
This is not exactly the same for males. Bi-sexual males generally find that there is little for them in scripts. A bisexual straight male is well gay. He has to be gay. Really!
Perhaps, it is our culture. However, we have gotten over the academic wars between nature and nurture and find that both make a contribution. A few small studies have indicated that females are attracted to naked females, but not naked males. So why do females bother with males in the first place, there is significant evidence that females find the penis not attractive.
Is it that females find the naked male attractive like a new car? Or something that is new and exciting, but it is not sexually arousing. To become aroused by the male body, females must first become aroused by talk music, or something else. Is that valid? The male is the instrument who works to make the female sexually excited. Or? Are we drifting off here?
Do females pick up from their culture that 2 females having sex is exciting, but that does not apply to males. There is much that is unknown here because; males assumed straight females did not sexually arouse each other except in films where they are paid to do so.
On the female side, illustrations of two people regardless of sex are much less exciting than the written word. As it becomes more acceptable, females may find that being gay is part of growing up. Males may find that being gay is paying a high price for experimentation.
If we are talking about a person who is truly bi-sexual, we hope for their sake that they are female. It is much easier. |
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